Responding to a greeting from internet dating site

J, sorry that I did not even read your profile when i responded to you, i looked the pictures though.
I am paying my bills online- it is also the time I can sit by my personal computer in a day. I saw your email through, clicked it, it opened your profile directly.
This website is good, allows us to meet different people, but it also can be very distracting. We sometimes take it light. When we are busy, we forgot to write back; may be another profile is more interesting, let's forget the previous one... I do get a lot messages each day, i do that often.
I have been divorced for over a year, a similar length to yours.
I am learning, as time moves along.
It was very hard in the beginning, being through the emotional roller coaster; to overcome the fears; and to be on myself, everything.
We are afraid of being alone, especially when children are not around. Besides, we need confirmation as a man or woman, the best way is to date.
But, it is not all a joyful journey, we feel disappointed, embarrassed, hurt, and... the instability and uncertainty.
I am thinking now, we have to be comfortable for being alone, not rush into anything which by gut feeling is not right, and will know when the right person comes along.